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Saturday, August 26, 2006Being A DommeThanks for everyone's support on the last, somewhat dramatic post. Sometimes the old snakes get back on the plane, ya know? But I feel much better now thanks to some self reflection and a really nice service session from pet. I was thinking today about how being a Domme, being free to do that at home, has really screwed me up in other areas. I can NOT suffer patiently whilst others bicker about a decision. I can't really take charge in all situations, so I simply sit on my hands until it becomes clear that SOMEONE has to make a call. Then I do, as politely as possible, always acquiescing if someone disagrees. Then, naturally, the bickering and indecision go on. I think I've bitten my tongue bloody by now, lol! It is my nature to be polite and accommodating in a group where I'm not in charge, but sometimes I wish I could just whip out the crop and tell everyone "this is how it is going to be"! Wonder how that would go down at work... |