Thursday, June 30, 2005Who We Are
ABitDifferent down in the bottom post asked for a little background on us. I can tell you about me, but I'll let my husband tell you about him.
As an aside to that--it is too weird being all incognito and stuff. New email accounts, pseudonyms, all that jazz. I've never been "under cover" before and I find it all a bit strange but also titillating. And isn't that a nice word? Suffice it to say we have jobs and kids, and want neither to be compromised by our bedroom fun!
So, in the vaguest but most specific terms:
I am 27, my husband is 27. We have known each other many many years but have been romantically involved for 3 of those. Before him, I was married to an emotionally abusive jerk. Before that, I was raised by an emotionally abusive jerk. Needless to say, I'm not all that mystified about where my desire to control men comes from.
In fact, I often muse about this--am I sick? Am I crazy? I've come to the conclusion that no, I'm not sick or crazy. My past has affected my present, but who's hasn't? I think my essential "Dommeness" started out one way, but has morphed through much self work into a simple sexual proclivity, much like being turned on by shoes or liking anal sex (ask the pet about that ;). And I'm fairly tame, some might even criticize me for not being "Domme enough". To them I say whatever, it's not your sex life anyway.
I first discovered this side of myself around the time I became involved with my husband romantically. I was seeing someone else, a dear dear man who just wasn't going to be "the one". I've always been fascinated by sexual "kink"--in fact it is kind of what led me to my current career in the helping profession. As this man and I explored, he helped me realize that it was more than an interest, but a desire that I had for dominance, for topping, for exerting my will over another. For me it isn't even as much about WHAT we do, but that we do it my way, when I say and how I say. Though I do get off on certain things, as you've seen and will continue to see. He was a confirmed sub, and helped me explore being a Domme a bit, but by then my relationship with "the guy", my husband, was heating up and I had to end it with this other man. From then on, for me, the Domme thing got put in a closet for a while. But this side of me never went away, never even got smaller. She would sit in her closet and bang on the door and fight to be let out--especially when my husband showed signs of subbing, like wanting anal sex, wanting me to be rough with him, etc. So, we spent a long time talking about it. My husband wasn't comfortable with the idea, and I'll let him explain that to you. I just waited, wanting and leaving that part of me out of it. That was hard, as I'm sure some of you can understand.
I'm so happy that he agreed to "go there" now. I'm so so relieved to let that girl out of her closet to play. Our sex life is amazing lately, too. My husband has commented I'm more attentive and patient, more affectionate now. On my end, I'm just supremely satisfied. Ahhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh
I hope that provided some background.
I just love how pet writes the steamy bits--he's so sexy.
Last night, after I wrote my Anal Sex! post, I was horny again, and so was she. Law and Order re-runs don't usually have that effect on her but this time, I think we finished a little prematurely anyway, and we just needed a little relaxation period.
I got into bed and straddled her. She felt so soft and warm! We kissed for a little bit, just a little, little bit. Then she flipped me over on my back and straddled me! She crawled up my body until her knees were above my shoulders and her pussy was in my mouth. I started licking only to discover she was already wet! I licked her to orgasm, pretty quickly again. Mistress says my oral sex delivery gets better every time. I do love it when she compliments me, I thanked her as she slid down my body to rest her hips on mine.
She told me to reach into the drawer and get a condom. I do love it when she bosses me around! I adorned the condom and she slipped me into her dripping wet pussy. My Mistress started to gyrate and ride my hard dick, her breasts hanging down and her nipples brushing my tongue, which I was leaving out there for that purpose. She grabbed my wrists and restrained them above my head, another thing I love! Perhaps we'll start experimenting with rope or leather straps in the future.
My Mistress came, again in no time at all. She kissed my face and slipped off of me, then lay on her back and told me to fuck her! I was a lucky pet! I scurried around between her spread-eagle legs and inserted my penis, still turgid from her previous two orgasms. I entered her and began to pound away, her pussy wet with my saliva and her juices. I put my hands on her thighs where they meet her hips to get a little more leverage and a little bit deeper penetration. It was all I needed to reach climax again. I collapsed atop her breasts for a moment while we both caught our breath.
Again, in conclusion, I do love anal sex; apparently it's good for multiple male orgasms and a happy Mistress, which is my primary concern!
Wednesday, June 29, 2005Anal Sex!
Today, our order from the sub-shop came. We got a strap-on harness, a 5 1/2" dildo, and some thai anal beads. We thought it appropriate to use the money I got for Fathers' day to buy a harness and dildo, as I had been begging for them for a while. I doubt I'll put that in the thank-you notes. The sub-shop threw in the anal beads for free because our order was over $50.
Backing up for a moment, I kept my ring on after sex last night, so it was "on" while I was at work...all day. I wanted to orgasm all morning, and all afternoon, but since I was bound to my mistress, I had to be content to be frustrated. Around lunch, she sent me a text and picture message on my phone. However, my phone blows my ass in a bad way, so I only got the text, which read something like "Can you tell what I'm wearing?" I thought she had gone crazy or my telepathy had failed again, just like always. Later, when I got home, she filled in the blanks and told me that the picture was of her legs in leggings, and no underwear!
So, when I got home, my mistress ran off to work, leaving me to fantasize more, and of course, wait. My mistress loves to make me wait. I have the typical man-syndrome where I am inhibition-free up until orgasm, and immediately following release, I am Tim the toolman or CJ from grand theft auto or really anyone, anywhere else, or asleep. I can't explain it, I'm thinking it's chemical or biologic or something, but that really doesn't matter. What does matter is that before I orgasm, I am inhibition-free and pretty much ready to throw down with anything.
It's when I'm really horny, hard as a rock, and rubbing all over my Mistress that I've discovered how much I love eating her ass or sucking as much of her foot into my mouth as I can. Normally, both of these things carry with them reasons to not do them, but in the heat of passion, I really could care less. My Mistress knows this, and she has really made it her mission to stretch out that time before my orgasm until she feels satisfied, which is fine with me, being her pet. The alternatives, prematurely finished sex and punishment/postponement next time are never on my wish list.
So, back to tonight, and the dildo. Mistress' rules are few, but strict. One is that we always try a new toy out on ourselves before the other uses it on us. The dildo was purchased to fuck me in the ass, but as Mistress unwrapped it and played with it, she decided she wanted to be fucked first. She commanded me to rub her feet, then kiss her feet and rub her legs, and finally to begin stimulating her clit with my hand. Following that, I slipped a condom on the dildo and handed her her beloved hitachi magic wand.
I inserted the dildo slowly, spreading her incredibly wet pussy open with my free hand. She liked it, so I inserted it in a little farther, then pulled it back to make sure the whole thing was lubed with her abundant juices. I felt a little uncomfortable pushing it in, so I let her man the base while I watched. She slid the whole thing into her accomodating pussy, and began to moan a bit. Now that I had seen it penetrate, I took over again and began fucking her, hard.
Mistress massaged her clit with the Hitachi while I fucked her with the purple, rubber dong. She came so quickly, I knew this was a good toy! I removed the condom, and moved up her body to kiss her. She told me it was my turn, and to prepare myself. I got a fresh condom, the KY, and began to probe my asshole with my fingers. Once I had two fingers in comfortably, I thought it was about time to try the toy.
Mistress watched as I fought with the soft tip of the penis, trying to force it in a moving target like feeding a baby strained carrots. Eventually, I asked her to help me guide it in. She lined it up and stabilized it as she gently pushed on the back. I felt a huge endorphin rush as my ass opened up. I shuddered a little as it went in. My mistress pulled it out, and then pushed it back in, and out, and in, until it was a smooth action, and it felt wonderful! At first, it went in only about halfway, but in the thick of it, whatever was stopping it moved and it went in about 2/3 of the way. I speculated later about why it wouldn't go in, but let's not ruin the moment now.
While she fucked my ass with the dildo, she reached under my spread legs and began to stroke my cock too. She cradled my balls a little and then went back to squeezing and sliding down my dick. My cock was pulsating up and down from all the blood and pressure and just plain good lovin'. The combination resulted in a gush of semen that resembled, in her words, Old Faithful. I only wish I could come as regularly and often as Old Faithful. The tween times would be filled with my Mistress riding my cock without having to stop because I'm about to burst and then go limp!
All in all, my first "real" ass fucking, "real" meaning with a penis shaped object that isn't a plug, finger, or toe, was outstanding. My Mistress took extreme pleasure in watching me and commented afterwards that it was one of the hottest orgasms she had been privy to. I cannot wait to have her strap it on and hammer my ass while I assume the position. When we finished, Mistress reminded me that I still owe her an ass licking, since I promised her one on a note I left in the car (which she found on the way to work). I can't wait!
Well, I'm horny, how are you?
My lovely lovely spouse and pet has introduced you to the fun side of this blog, let me introduce you to the, ahem, business end.
We started this blog for two reasons:
It is so freaking hot. It has all ready enhanced the journey we're on through conversations like this one yesterday...
him: "I can't remember if I fucked you from behind or if you fucked me and I came on the bed."
me: "Neither can I. Wait, didn't you lick my ass for like half an hour that day?"
him: "Oh yeah. I want to do that again."
When we finally decided to move forward and add some D/s play to our lovemaking, I did what I tend to do. I went researching. I found www.gabbyhey.blogspot.com through a blog traffic site, and instantly knew that was what I was looking for. Here was an ordinary person who was exploring and moving deeper into her submission. The diary explored the ups and downs of subbing, and shared her thoughts on all sorts of matters. And also, she included lots of hot sex, bonus. From her blog rolls I found www.keeperandkept.blogspot.com, one of my very favorite new blogs of all time. Also, I found www.guiltyparties.blogspot.com. All three of these blogs really characterize the need I had--regular people, real feelings. Not a fakey porn site or an extreme fetish site, but an honest, open experience of D/s. Thanks to all three sites for your excellence and dedication.
Here was my problem. All of these sites, and the many other quality sites I surfed, were male dominant, female submissive sites. I searched for hours, then put my husband on the job since he's a much more tech savvy person. Neither of us found anything. We found a few quality male submissive sites--this one in particular www.wifeworship.blogspot.com. We also found about a trillion pay Domme sites. However, no one was really exploring as a couple all the aspects of BECOMING a D/s couple with a Domme. Dang, we thought, that's a bummer.
So here we are. Clearly my pet, my love, my husband has a gift for the dirty talk, so I'll let him fill you in on our exploits so far. As of now, we are focusing our D/s activities in the bedroom, and keeping our 24/7 life vanilla and D/s free. We're not sure where we're going on this trip, but we hope that we can help someone out there like us along the way. Join us, won't you?
P.S. Does anyone else find it odd that the blogger spellcheck doesn't recognize the word "blog"?
Sunday, June 26, 2005Just Can't Get Enough
Still horny from Friday night's happenings, we launched into another bout of hardcore sex. Mistress decided that we should watch a movie after dinner instead of jumping straight into bed, so we did, because what she says goes.
She laid there, clothed in a sexy outfit, while I laid there naked, my head on her lap. We stroked and caressed each other for a while, but since I am an impatient pet, I started to lick her sex. Her lips were already wet, and she repositioned herself so I would be between her legs. Clearly, since I was still slurping away happily, she approved of my actions.
I continued to lick her while she half-watched the movie. At one point, the main character screamed really loud and we both looked up for a second, laughed, and then went back to work. We killed the movie shortly after since it was clear we weren't going to see any more of it right now.
When she climaxed, she called me an impatient little pet. She told me to go into the bedroom, get out my Butt-Plug, lube up my asshole, insert it, and then wait for her on my hands and knees. She came in from the bathroom, crouched on the edge of the bed and asked if I wanted her to fuck me. I said "yes." She said "yes, what?" I replied "yes, mistress, please fuck me in the ass."
She took the vibrator control and started to play with it, pulsing it on and off. It felt really good! Better than the last time I tried it. Mistress also pushed and pulled the plug in and out while she pulsed it. It felt soooo good! She told me to jack off while she did this, so, being the good pet, I did. I came on the sheets.
**From Her: Poor pet had to go to work and did not get to complete his post. I'm posting it anyway, because I like it. Who knew he had such a filthy mouth? I'll have to clean it out for him.
Saturday, June 25, 2005Something Different, Something New
After much discussion (three years worth, really) we decided that we were ready as a couple to try some D/s in the bedroom. My Mistress (not yet, at the time) was having a hard time not being my Mistress while we were having sex since I started exploring more aspects of my and our sexuality.
It started, for me, with becoming comfortable doing new things during sex, like sucking her toes and foot, licking her pussy while she squats over my face, rimming her asshole with my tongue, and having her penetrate my ass with her fingers and our new vibrating butt-plug.
I had been telling her how I wanted her to bend me over the bathroom counter and fuck me hard in the ass, smother my face with her juicy pussy until she came all over my face, and I really wanted to wear her panties.
My Mistress was not my Mistress at this time, and she was really having a hard time not falling into that role while I told her my fantasies and asked her to stimulate me and make me eat her ass. Since I was opening up (and not just my anus), we agreed to start slowly and try out these roles in bed. We bought a piece of jewelry for me to wear when I was being her sub, so she would know when it was on and could control me. This let me stay in my comfort zone, which was important for me since I am new to D/s.
So, last night, I slipped on my new jewelry, and for the first time I let go of my inhibitions and reserves and became My Mistress' new pet. Of course, I forgot to tell her that I had put it on and she didn't notice right away, so we actually just started out like we usually do but I was more agreeable. I pointed it out to her and after a little laugh, we got back to business.
She was already wet from the foreplay we had been having, a recently recovered addition to sex that had been missing for a few months. Given the new information that I was ready to bend to her will, she jumped on the opportunity to put me to work. She told me to finger her clit with one hand while finger-fucking her pussy with the other, and though I was sitting in an awkward position, she told me "You can be uncomfortable."
So I brought her to climax, while begging to lick her pussy. After I she had a little respite, I began to dive in. My Mistress then demanded I shave since my stubble was affecting her in a very adverse way. I did so while she observed my naked body, and remarked that I was still hard in spite of doing nothing that resembled a sexual act. I finished up and returned. She told me that I would be punished next time I didn't shave before trying to do something like that. I took this to heart since I do love licking her pussy so much.
When I returned, I licked her to climax again, which pleased her, so she flipped over and let me lick her asshole. I did so happily and as she moaned into the pillow, I relished my time in her butt cheeks.
After a healthy amount of her anal pleasure, she allowed me to slide under her raised hips and lick her pussy once more. She orgasmed very quickly then rolled over again to get off her knees. Since she wanted a break, she took one, and started directing me while she watched. She handed me the KY and told me to lube up my asshole.
My Mistress likes watching me pleasure myself, which is great for both of us. She had me prep the new butt-plug with a condom and insert it. I opened up and slid it in like a pro. She remarked that my ass was made for fucking judging by how fast and painlessly I inserted it all the way in.
She played around with it, pushing and pulling while I varied the intensities of the vibrations. It felt good to have her push it into my ass, probing my insides with the jelly tip. I was hard enough now to hang a swing on. My Mistress was so turned on that she had me don a condom and fuck her (butt-plug in) until I came, which wasn't long.
So ended the first night of newfound passion. We cuddled for a while and then fell asleep together. In the morning, My Mistress was my wife again, and I was an equal partner. I was still as horny as a teenage boy though, I get the feeling we'll be back at it again tonight. I know I'll be wearing my jewelry, it's all up to her at that point!
Friday, June 24, 2005First Post!
I always wanted to say that.