Monday, November 27, 2006One more thing...
Do you Livejournal?
I went ahead and created a livejournal account for networking purposes. If you like, you can add me (and pet will have access also).
lady_janon is the user name, the journal address, though inactive mostly, is http://lady_janon.livejournal.com
That is all :D
I have so much to be thankful for.
My pet, my children, my life and my newfound path in that life. My work, my art.
And for this community, too. For Richard and Alexandra, Destiny and chance, saratoga, Lenora, Freya, Desireous, Darren and his Sir, Goddess Aradia and Goddess Isis (Holly) and all their boys on the board fd nyte and others, ruth's boy (even if he doesn't update NEARLY enough), Aspirint, Ford, my very favorite model Remmy, Swan and her clan, and many others with and without names that visit here and share their stories with us.
Without you all, we'd have been lost and alone in our journey. I'm very, very thankful for all of you. Have a fantastic holiday season filled with blessings and light. And kink, of course.
Saturday, November 25, 2006Trip Report Epilogue, Spanking - Ouch!
On our trip, something interesting came up, or rather came to a head during one of our spanking sessions. My lady has been perfecting her spanking technique to cause maximum noise and sharp pain with any tool (except the aforementioned flogger). My reaction to this sharp pain is my reaction to any sharp pain, violent spasms and protective manuevers.
Allow me to equate it to something we all experience - the stubbed toe. Some people stub their toe and grab it and do the dance of pain. Other people stub it and just flinch and squeeze their arms and shoulders up really tight and breathe heavily. I am the former, and the same applies to any ass beating.
My lady told me that she has read several blogs about people who are like me, who crave the spanking but have a hard time with the pain. My lady has charged me to figure out how to not move, because she does not want to have to chase me all over the bed when she wants to spank me. I have to agree, and while the reactions are mostly involuntary, I do feel some greater degree of control as we have more sessions.
I would love it if anyone who shares our pain with this would offer some advice. We've tried restraints but I'm a big man and while they mostly immobilize me, I still have a lot of wiggle room and that leads to the same violent reactions of twisting and pulling and usually ends up in someone getting hurt or something getting broken. Thanks!
We returned from our short excursion away from the children slightly poorer in money but richer in leather. Aside from the stylish purple leather whip-like keyring my lady now sports on her keys, we also have two large bags of scrap leather with which to experiment. My lady has complained numerous times that the flogger we have is little more than a backrubber, and would like something a little more "meaningful." This leather, already colored and cured, may do the trick, because the fake suede sure isn't.
The trip was lovely, and we returned to our daily lives with a renewed connection and sense of longing for more short excursions.
Monday, November 20, 2006An Interlude
I want to direct you to Darren's Sir, listed to the left as "The Other Hand".
Her most recent post is one I've been trying to write myself, but she did a better job.
Enjoy, and pet will have more updates soon as I head into the final week of my novel. Be well and kinky.
Saturday, November 18, 2006Trip report, first day.
Mistress and I are on a lovely little vacation to a sweet spot, surrounded by nature and mountains and such. Upon arrival at our hotel, we disrobed and climbed into the bed. It was a wonderful bed with a pillowtop matress, a poofy comforter, and a half dozen pillows. The bed was so comfortable we decided to stay a while and cuddle.
After a little cuddling, my mistress took my hand and shoved it between her legs, commanding me to massage her pussy through her underwear. I did this eagerly and she quite enjoyed it. She had me fetch her vibrator and prepare it for her use, which I did quickly, and then she ushered me back under the covers to penetrate her with my finger while she vibrated away.
Only moments later she had a powerful orgasm, sending me backwards a bit. She then told me she was spoiling me as always and instructed me to put on a condom. I did all this while she turned over to her knees and elbows, presenting her back and glorious ass to me. I pressed my penis into her pussy while kissing her back and rubbing her neck and head a little.
I fucked her vigorously to her delight and then came in her, all the while making noise (but not too much noise). When I finished, I collapsed on her, and pulled the comforter back over us, and then continued on cuddling with her for a while. It was a wonderful first day!
Sunday, November 12, 2006A List
I'm so very horny right now--and I'd love to use a more eloquent word than horny but all my good words are tied up in my novel right now. So horny it is.
I thought I might make a list of our toys, which aren't "hardcore" or anything, but we enjoy them!
Pet's favorite: The homemade flogger, with one inch falls. More like a back rub than anything.
My favorite: The enforcer, aka the leather crop that was never a riding crop but ooh the squealing noises I get when I use it *weg*
The rice paddle--a major sting, and this one can raise welts if I'm not careful. Sometimes I'm not careful on purpose.
The ping pong paddle--nice for me, pet is not generally in favor of it. The pebbly rubber makes cool red marks.
My bare hand--really, this can be as vicious as I want it to be, which is nice but sometimes my palms get sore and we can't have that, can we? Can't forget the fingernails, either, which I love to use to make patterns on pet's back.
An assortment of velcro fasteners--originally used to hold boxes together, they make great quickie restraints. I'm pretty sure there's a set hanging from my shower stall that I haven't removed yet. That was a great scene--pet hanging from the shower door, both hands restrained, while I went to town on his ass under a stream of water. Water makes a better sting, btw, and longer lasting red marks.
Rope--basic nylon rope, nothing fancy for now though I covet Twisted Monk's rope. Especially the purple dyes. I'm not too good with the rope yet, just your basic stuff, but someday when we have more time to experiment I hope to become well versed in rope bondage.
That list did not help the horny, not even a little. Sigh.
Friday, November 10, 2006Tease, please!
My lovely mistress loves to tease me. She loves to tease me even when she's not around. She does this by getting out her vibrator and masturbating while I'm away, and then leaves the vibrator out for me to find.
Sometimes it is more subtle, like the computer with all my home-made porn on it being on when I was pretty sure I had turned it off the night before. Another time she left all the towels out on the chair near the bed, with a nice butt-print where she got busy.
My lady loves to tease me, though it pains her too, because her masturbating means I'm not around enough. Whenever we are together and she feels like coming, she uses me for her fucktoy, a job which I love. Her resorting to the vibrator means we have been without intimate sex time for too long.
Of course sometimes it doesn't mean anything except "look what I did" and that's fine too. Sex is good and healthy and the more she masturbates, the better.
Saturday, November 04, 2006Sex again!
Last night started out well, with some very aggressive foreplay and some very romantic exchanges. It progressed quickly from the car to the bedroom, where my mistress mounted me as our hands moved over each other's body. Everything was going well and my lovely lady asked if I was ready to enter her so she could use me as a dildo, one of her more frequented activities, and to my surprise, I found I was not fully erect, and losing stiffness fast.
That was a bit of a show-stopping moment, and it wouldn't have been so bad had it not also happened four days prior. Both times had various circumstances around them that could be contributing factors. Four days ago we had just made love two nights straight in a row after about a week and a half of nothing, making it the third night. This is probably the reason I failed to maintain an erection, I had just run out of steam. Last night came after I had played sports very hard at lunch two days ago and yesterday after almost a full month of almost no exercise at all, and my legs were still a little wobbly even. We have had experiences before where I'll play a sport for something like three or four hours and then, in spite of my energy and desire, can't get my body to pump enough into my groin to be of any use, or maintain it.
Even with my half-hard penis last night, my lady had me orgasm and assured me that there were no hard feelings and she wasn't upset or disappointed and that I shouldn't worry. I know it's strange that I can orgasm with a flacid penis, or maybe it's not. I haven't really surveyed anyone on this subject.
This morning we woke up well rested and horny again. We cuddled in bed for a bit, then I moved my hand between her legs. I massaged her lips without pressing in, just applying dull, methodic pressure to her loins. She was clearly enjoying herself and after a while longer, I did finally press between the folds of her vagina and began to work my fingers on her sensitive spots. This continued for a while, then she reached for her vibrator and had me move my fingers to penetrate her. I slipped one finger into her flooded vagina (it was wetter than I had seen it in a while) and soon another. I worked back and forth, pulsing and rubbing and all the while kissing her nipples and scratching her head. She came, and as she came, I found myself stiff as a board on her leg, pre-cumming. Her excitment and pleasure had aroused me, and so I mounted her and in the passion of the moment, fucked her as hard as I could before pulling out and cumming on her stomach.
We kissed a bit and then I cleaned her up. It was a wonderful way to start the morning (ED free, that's for me)!