Saturday, July 19, 2008Communication is key
I know I write a lot here about keeping communication lines open between partners - I feel it is really, really important. When we have issues or conflicts, it is often due to a lack of communication or a miscommunication. I write about the conflicts, but I don't write much about the ways communication works. Today I have two instances where communication landed us in the throws of passion.
1. I lay in bed talking about my fantasy du jour, and my mistress was excited by it and decided to do it. I orally stimulated her to climax, then she got on all fours and I proceeded to lick her ass and fuck her pussy until I was ready to orgasm, at which point I pulled out, buried my tongue beween her cheeks, and manually finished all over the side of the bed. It was quite pleasant for both of us, and it would not have happened had I not been telling my lady about my fantasy.
2. We woke up and I had a bad dream (the same bad dream I often have - where I am either with another woman on accident or falsely accused of being with another woman and I have to face my lady). My lady had had a sexy dream, and was quite horny from it. We cuddled for a bit and talked about our dreams, and then went on to make sweet, fast love (the proverbial quickie) since we had to get up and get the kids to school shortly. Without communicating our dreams and feelings, what would have normally just risen from bed and gone about our business, her horny and frustrated, me longing for her consoling touch.
Good communication doesn't always end in sex, but it certainly knocks down barriers to it all around.
Saturday, July 12, 2008Fetlife plug and pedicure routine
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Our big service routine is a weekly or bi-weekly pedicure. We have a recliner in our room in which she sits. I undress completely and then prepare a foot bath with hot water (using bath salts or scented oils). She soaks her feet for a few minutes while I round up the exfoliation tools and then I sit at her feet and scrub each foot individually until it is smooth. After that, I dry her feet and remove her nail polish carefully with a tissue and some non-acetone nail polish remover. I then trim her toenails, file them, and repaint them. I use this as a creative outlet for myself so my mistress lets me pick colors and do designs. When her toes are dry, I apply lotion to her feet to make sure they stay smooth. I apply lotion to her feet every night in bed too; it helps keep her feet from cracking too much between pedicures.