Friday, February 23, 2007Just breaking the silence
We're still here, I just wanted to say that we're alive and mostly well (colds and such ran rampant through our house too, yet another obstacle). We have been busy with life too; we've made love at some pretty random hours (like waking up from a sexy dream, then poking the other person until S/he wakes up, and then spending an hour cuddling or playing at sex, or waking up super early, or just trying to squeeze something in when we can). I've been in and out with travel and She's been in and out with all sorts of stuff, and we had company stay with us, so our time together is often limited and when we get an opportunity, we take it and don't really have time to set up a scene or much.
We did score a new toy from Rena's Leather which we'd like to try out when we do get some together time. We'll have to see how it compares to the homemade one we created a while ago. I'll be sure to report.
Saturday, February 17, 2007Hair Pulling
We had a nice Valentine's dinner, complete with a group of very naughty gifts. I got pet a lovely leather harness with a built-in cock ring that he wore to dinner under his nice clothes (not to worry, it is just for show, nothing that could harm him after a few hours wear). He whined the whole time about the thing pulling his little hairs (to which I replied, well, then you should have shaved, LOL).
And I discovered the true joys of hair pulling. I've always been prone to getting a handful of pet's hair during sex, but I found that he enjoys it more than I thought, and that I can be much rougher than I thought. I found it to be a very erotic thrill when he squirmed underneath me--not pulling away exactly but definitely feeling some pain, and without all the fussing he usually does. Nice.
Friday, February 09, 2007Two ships passing
That pretty much describes us these past two weeks. I barely get to see my lovely mistress at all! She's been ill or working or I've been out working or any number of issues have come up and we just haven't really connected. I post this as she is out again tonight.
We've had some moments though, like this morning when I got out of the shower and she had just returned home. I just left my towel on the bed and cleaned up while she sat in a recliner and watched me. She always says she wants a naked houseboy to stay with her when she's ill. I do what I can.
Friday, February 02, 2007Bruises
Thanks to the person who emailed to compliment pet's story--I tell you, I write a lot but sometimes he just nails it. Brat.
I wanted to talk about bruises. Something in me loves, loves, loves to leave bruises on pet. I don't generally set out to leave marks on him, but when one appears as a result of our play, bonus! Welts are also lovely. I continue to be amazed at how much he can take, not being hardcore S and M folks.
I'm even starting to enjoy the hunt--when he squeals and whines and fusses and generally avoids what he knows he wants. It's taken me a while to accept the dichotomy of masochism, but now that I really understand it, I find myself excited by his reluctance.
If you had asked me when we started this blog if I liked causing my loved one pain, I'd have laughed. Now I can say I do enjoy it, especially when he comes to me, eyes shining, to show off his latest bruise.