Friday, April 27, 2007Temporarily Lonely
My Mistress is away for a few days and I am lonely without her. The kids keep me pretty exhausted so it's not too bad, and my Lady left me with a hickey on my shoulder that is still as purple as the day she gave it to me, about a week ago. No sleeveless shirts for me right now! I think that was part of her way of making sure I still feel her Dominating presence while she is out.
I sleep with her blanket and pillows, partly because it is really comfortable to have five pillows to arrange, but mostly because they smell ever so faintly of her body, something I treasure and worship. Only a few more days until she returns, I do so want to be with her again!
Saturday, April 21, 2007Letting Go
Mistress and I discovered there is a responsible side to letting yourself go. This happened when I screamed after a particularly painful set of slaps on my back. It was very loud, and the kids were asleep and as soon as I had screamed from the pain of that last slap, my Lady shut down and refused to play with me anymore.
The long and short of it was this was irresponsible of me to let myself go so far as to potentially involve someone else (i.e. wake the kids). I was getting into the moment and letting myself go without thinking of the situation. My Lady said that in a dungeon or isolated hotel cabin or something, that would have been fine, maybe even expected, but in our house with the kids asleep, that is a big nono, and a hard limit for her.
Hard limits are important, and knowing what both yours and your partners are is even more important. My Lady was right to cut off play for the evening.
Monday, April 09, 2007Hot Wax
Loooong time readers might remember our first attempt at hot wax play--a candle that was made specifically as massage oil. That was very nice if not overly pain-filled.
Sometime between then and now, the candle went missing. We re-did our entire bedroom and closet, and it just got lost. So we settled for a plain white pillar candle last night, our first attempt at using actual "wax" for wax play. I've done the research and know that white wax is best, and the higher you hold the candle over someone's back, the less painful it will be. Not that it won't hurt, no no.
So I lit the candle (which, highly romantically, was lit for our "first time" ever, long ago). When the wax was melted, I went to town on pet's back (his chest is hairy, that is the wrong kind of pain, lol). What followed was intoxicating to participate in. Pet writhed and groaned but begged for more until I was coaxing more wax to melt faster. The mix of sensations--the hot wax, the rapid cool, the light breath I blew on the droplets--all proved sweetly arousing for him.
I had so much fun I was in my own little universe for the rest of the night. Don't let anyone tell you domme space doesn't exist, because it does, it totally does.
Friday, April 06, 2007
I "red up" easily, which is good for my Mistress, who likes to see me red when she is "loving" me. Here's an example:
One good slap to my back and you can see a handprint. This was several minutes after I managed to dig out the camera and get it balanced to photograph myself.