Saturday, May 19, 2007Bruises
Last week was a bruiser. My mistress went medieval on my back causing a lot of pain from both her strikes and the subsequent palm-sized blue spot I had for several days to come. We didn't have much contact after that for the rest of the week, we missed each other a lot and when we were together, it wasn't the right time/mood/anything for an encounter. Mix in some awkward extended family issues and we're set for a no-play week.
However, today we were cuddling in bed and my lovely lady started to make love to me passionately and aggressively. She had quite possibly the fastest orgasm to date, and following that, allowed me to fuck her while she was bent over the counter. After that, we cuddled a bit more and then went back to missing each other.
Friday, May 11, 2007Spanking
I am, once again, alone on the weekend. My loving mistress has flown out of town on an extended family errand and everyone else around is sick so I am hanging out at home nursing everyone back to health and hoping the vitamins I'm slamming keep me healthy through it all. I miss my Mistress so much, and it hasn't even been a day! Last night she extolled my cock (or her cock, as she likes to call it) and we had a very passionate quicky before crashing hard (early flight).
Strangely enough, I happened across a CDD (Christian Domestic Discipline) site. I quickly found that while we share nothing in common with religion and such, Leah Kelley (the blog author) and I have a lot in common when it comes to our love (and distaste) of kitchen implements as spanking tools.
I saw giant wooden spanking paddles (rough cut and unfinished) at Michaels. They look like tiny cricket bats, really. I wonder if we're going to have another craft project in the near future?
Friday, May 04, 2007Plug and Play
Last weekend my mistress was away but she gave me permission to play with myself to orgasm as long as I had a plug in my ass while I did it. I picked our purple plug which is always a good starter and aside from the missing bullet that used to inhabit the core, it is still a wonderful toy. A little lube, a condom, and I was ready to go.
I worked on flexing the controllable part of my anus to see what I could do. I already knew that if I flex like I'm trying to push something out, I actually open up a bit to let something in, so I did that a bit. I then went on to pushing it in with my hand, and then pushing it back out with my anus. Again, nothing special, but it feels really good. A little more play like that and I was hard. I tried to extend play a bit by rubbing my cock, and when it was getting close to orgasm, I would stop and play with the plug a bit. Even still, the whole event wasn't 20 minutes, but it felt really good.
Occasionally, doing this blog leads to interesting places. Today, it leads to a book for me!
We're one of the last stops on Rachel Kramer Bussel's She's On Top virtual book tour.
I had a chance to read the book last month, and now I get to review it for Rachel. Lucky me!
She's On Top is a collection of short erotic stories featuring dominant women and submissive men. The stories range from historical to contemporary, light play to cutting.
I don't find a lot of erotic stories from the female dominant's point of view, so it was nice to read a book full of them. The stories were highly charged, featuring women using their sexual power in a variety of ways.
I particularly enjoyed the cutting story, "Mark of Ownership" by Teresa Noelle Roberts. While cutting isn't a personal fetish, the depth of emotional connection and true affection between participants is palpable. The story "Ottoman Empress" by Noelle Kelly also highlights the affection and respect a dominant has for her submissive. Even while using her husband as a piece of furniture, she is always in touch with his well being and arousal. This is the kind of D/s play I like to see, and the kind that gets me off. No complaints.
Some of the stories addressed kinks I don't have. I'm a sadist, not a bitch, and some of the stories in the book run toward the "domme as bitch" fantasy. I personally don't get off on intentional cruelty, but it can be a fetish for others. While the stories are written in the female's point of view, I think many of the stories might appeal more to the submissive man with a traditional punishment fantasy.
In that light, Bussel did a good job of choosing a range of stories from all sides of the D/s world. While every story in the book may not appeal, you're sure to find a tale or two you fancy.
You can buy this book through amazon.com or through Cleis Press.