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Tuesday, May 30, 2006New Links and pet in TroubleThanks to (omg, yet another) illness, our sex life has been sadly missing. Pray to Freya for us, won't you? Children aren't so much people as little germ factories, I'm beginning to think. Pet earned himself some serious time under the enforcer for the following: me: "dear, do you think you should call xyz about xyz?" pet: "nah, I'll do it later" phone rings pet's sibling: "you should really call xyz about xyz" pet: "oh, okay I will" Oo, sent this Lady right into the red zone. You'll do it when someone else tells you to but not when I suggest it?!? He argued that I didn't outright "tell" him to do it, so he didn't do it. Not only did he tell me that, but saw no reason for me to be upset. My thinking on the matter was this. XYZ is something that he understands much better than I do, and his evaluation of the situation is important. So he should make the decision with my input. Hm. Well, if that is how it is...he can expect more directness from me in the future, and 10 from the crop for being snarky. Brat. New links abound in the F/m section over there. Go enjoy! Wednesday, May 24, 2006Shaving RevisitedRemember when pet was considering shaving his pubic region? We got lots of appreciated suggestions, and he went for it. I really enjoy the look and feel of a shaved pet, that is for sure (guys, a tip--your cock looks much, much bigger when shaved or even trimmed). However... I can't handle the stubble. My body is quite sensitive, and I noticed quickly that even a little bit of stubble or growback led to "beard burn" right on my most sensitive parts. NO THANKS! Pet simply can not find time to shave daily--a delicate and careful process that takes up valuable minutes in the morning. Therefore, he has grown the hair back to a length that doesn't cause me pain. Some would argue with me. Some would want me to demand that he wax or get up a half hour earlier each day to please me. While I agree that some things he does are for my pleasure, I have to balance the health and well being of my pet with my own needs. Pet needs his rest--he works hard during the day and comes home to my demands and the kids' demands. He handles it all admirably (now even more so, since all the discussions and decisions about D/s). His responsibility lies in making sure we're all set, mine is making sure he is cared for enough to do so. Therefore--no waxing, no unwarranted pain for my sake. When we find the time again, he will be shaving regularly. But until then, I balance his needs with my own to keep us happy and healthy and prickle free. I do miss the shaved look and feel, though. Thursday, May 18, 2006ReadyI'm horny, really horny. A rare and pleasant side effect of PMS. I have all kinds of delicious thoughts running through my mind. Pet collared, arms tied behind his back, kneeling in front of me ready to serve. Pet beneath me as I use him for my own personal dildo. Pet's all over massages are nice. As long as it winds up with him massaging my clit with his tongue. Sigh. Time constrains, but I'll find us a way. Friday, May 12, 2006Temple of PW, OpenI've been stalling my post, because I enjoyed pet's eloquent post. So I just left it up for a while. I have to say that he has been very dedicated to the task of submission, and I am pleased with his progress. I wish I could define exactly what is different, but I have as much trouble defining what he is doing right as I did defining what exactly felt wrong before. Leave it to say, somehow we blundered our way through and we seem to be on the same page again. My next goal for us is some serious time in the bedroom. Woot! Thursday, May 04, 2006The EnforcerPet took a round from the riding crop (lovingly nicknamed "the enforcer" around here) and did an admirable job of not whining too much. He must be getting tougher. |