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Monday, March 27, 2006GrumbleGrumbleI hate not having time for sex. I realize I could probably fit it in. But the sex we have now, well, it isn't the "fit it in" kind of sex. That sex is better left in the bad old days before D/s. A quickie might be fun for some, but we find it leads to resentment, hurt, and a serious lack of orgasm for me. Why on earth would we want to do that? On the other hand, this means that our frequency has dropped from three times a week to once--if we're lucky. Grumblegrumblegrumble. I do not like this. I am a three times a week Lady. However, I can find no immediate solution to the problem outside of hiring Superman to turn the clock back an extra hour each night. Needless to say, pet is way overdue for some serious ass fucking. And since we bought him one of these, all the more so. Yum. Wednesday, March 22, 2006I WonderJust what is so enticing about pet's bound ass up in the air, just begging me to smack it? Something about the curve of flesh, the rough then soft texture of it, the sheer invitation gets me dripping wet. By the time I'm done making his cheeks glow pink and making him say "owwww" and squirm away from me a few times, I'm ready to come with very little effort. Beautiful. Tuesday, March 14, 2006Fine LineSometimes, I find there is a very fine line between being someone's Domme and being their mommy. One, very desirable for us, the other leads to disagreements and rebellion. I'm doing my part by remembering just what things are part of our D/s relationship (our sexuality, final decisionmaking), and what things are NOT (most daily things). I fall in to the mommy trap with my spouse a lot, but I can't really blame D/s. In reality, I just fall into that trap because I mommy all day and my job is sort of a "parental" job. So, I just slip into it sometimes. But I need to be careful, because our dynamic must remain in the adult realm. Why hasn't anyone been handing out how-to books with marriage certificates? Thursday, March 09, 2006We're hereJust a little delayed in posting. In fact, I would say things have improved dramatically since my last post. Pet has some details to add, will be doing that later. Tonight, he is playing big bad top. Call it role play. I've had an assignment myself, even got down on my knees before him. I can't stop giggling, though. Guess I'm a bad bottom ;) Friday, March 03, 2006It's not all Blow Jobs and Butt SexGabby's husband and Dom, right, or was it Gabriel? Well, either way, sometimes being the Domme means putting yourself last, not first. Pet has had some serious libido killing stuff going on, and has had little to no interest in sex, intimacy and zero interest in service and submission. He didn't even take me up on my spanking offer, which is really sad and out of character for him. Well, I take that back. He has been thriving on my basic "take-charge" attitude, but has not returned the favor by being subservient (I've been saying it's all the Domme responsibility with none of the Domme rewards, lol). I don't resent this. He needs to be supported and his boundaries need to be respected right now. This is the time to let him guide our sexual experience. As long as he realizes that when he's ready to return, I will be in charge ;) |