Pussy Worship
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Friday, December 30, 2005HomemadeI posted a while ago about a homemade flogger recipe. Pet got fidgety last night watching me read and decided to try it out. I now have one faux suede flogger with 1/2 inch wide falls. I just played around with it a bit on myself. Even swinging my hardest I couldn't feel much of a sting, just a thuddy sensation. Pet has already handled stronger sensations from the fly swatter (left a welt yesterday that remained until sometime today). I don't think it is a toy to do much damage with, but it is soft and sensual as well as a good hitting toy. When we win the lottery, our toy box will be full. Until then, we focus on affordable pervertables! Monday, December 26, 2005Settling DownThings have settled down around here, which means we had enough time to lay down together and enjoy ourselves. Pet got his top on and decided to secure my hands and feet with ties and webbing before commencing with the pussy worship I have been desiring. The result was a very satisfied Lady. On that note, pet and I have come to the decision he will call me Lady rather than Mistress, at least on a regular basis. I find them equally pleasant, and he is more comfortable with the former. Now the question is...Lady what? I'm reading a book called Kushiel's Dart which is quite involved but centers around a woman who is a born masochist (that's the short version, of course). I'm enjoying the read, and I can say I am inspired to pull out all our various paddles in the very near future. It's been too long. As for the non-dirty, we had great holiday celebrations of many kinds, and hope you all did as well. The kids were well spoiled, we were well fed and everyone is in a coma today from all the food and fun. Blessed be to you and yours. Thursday, December 22, 2005Real World BluesKids+ Illnesses+ Chores+ Jobs+ Midnight feedings (yes, still)+ Early mornings+ Late nights+ Cooking+ Shopping+ Visiting+ Holiday obligations+ Regular obligations= One frustrated Domme with missing libido One wayward sub with very healthy libido Zero alone time to reconnect Little kink Nearly no sex I'm not really complaining, exactly, because life is beautiful. Just missing one key element. Not just D/s sex but sex in general. Sigh. It's like when I loose it sometimes I have a hard time getting it back. Life is easier when I can just jerk him off and be done with it. He's satisfied and off my back, I'm sleeping soundly, everyone is happy right? Not really. The extra effort it takes to establish deep intimacy, connection, then dominance is a long time in coming these days, but I'm looking for it. I want pet to know that. I'm looking for it. I'm dreaming of an island far away from distractions and "have-tos" where I can beat him as soundly as he wants and no one will wake up. Where I can fuck his ass as long as I want and the dildo lubricates itself. Where we can walk on the beach and he can wash my feet in the water. Where he can call me (whatever, we haven't decided yet) and I can call him pet and no one will look askance. Where I can collar him for anyone to see. Where the jacuzzi fits eight comfortably. Where the water is warm, the pina coladas are cold, and all the houseboys wear g-strings. It's "Her" land. Like that other famous land, only for grown ups. Kinky grownups. When I get rich, I'll send you the address. I love my kids dearly, I love my family and my life. I need a friggin' vacation!! :) Friday, December 16, 2005F/m on TelevisionI saw the worst show tonight--it's called "Twins". I don't recommend it, we were simply killing time before another show we wanted to see came on. However, there was this great little segment that went (sort of) like this: Wife: "Remember what we used to do in this office? We used to play naughty seamstress and...wait, who was I again?" Husband: "The angry boss!" I have to admit I was more fond of the show after this exchange. Tuesday, December 13, 2005AssignmentsPet and I are still deep in negotiations about how our practice of D/s. One thing I've found that works extremely well is the assignment. I give pet little (or large) assignments, usually daily but at least 5 days a week. Sometimes it is as simple as "put up the winter holiday lights" or "make yourself a doctor's appointment". Sometimes, it is blog related, and you can expect a pet authored post later today or early tomorrow. He owes me one. Sometimes, he plans dates or romantic interludes for us. Often, the assignments are sexual. I've sent him to the bathroom at work (or his parents' house) to stroke his cock until just before he cums. I love doing that. I've sent him off to run an errand wearing my thong panties. I've commissioned a home made movie, webcam style, that includes at least two toys before he is allowed to get off. A few nights ago, we were playing and rudely interrupted by the tiny tyrant before we could finish. He was given the assignment to enter me from behind, a favorite position for both of us, and make copious amounts of noise. He's a silent lover, a strange animal to me because I am quite vocal. Last night, he made good on that assignment. I love the feel of his cock sliding into me from behind, a full, tight feeling. He can use his position to move hard and fast, and I can hear not only his dirty talk above me but the slapping of flesh on flesh. He became quite vocal at the end, making me thankful for our split level floor plan. Nice. Saturday, December 10, 2005Cock TeaseToday I've brought him near orgasm several times. Two or three times in the shower, using his personal favorite--shaving cream. He likes it on my breasts, I like to use it to stroke his cock until *just *before he is going to explode. Then stop, leaving him breathless with arousal and anticipation. Once today, I took his cock in my mouth and sucked until he got hard and insistent, then went to get dressed. All morning he threatened to tie me up, slap my ass, fuck me. He loves to get all top-like and make threats. He'd do nothing unless I allowed it. So I bottom, but I never submit. We are dancing a slow dance, something he's learned to do. Sex isn't simply the act, but the tease, the promise, and in my case, the denial... Tuesday, December 06, 2005Do Dommes Give Blowjobs?Yes! Well, I do. When he deserves it. Pet has, in a cheeky moment, coined the term "blowjob bank". When he's super good, he earns himself an oral sex reward. He seems to think he gets to decide when deposits occur. He's wrong. I always determine deposits and withdrawals. He made a rather substantial withdrawal last night. Lucky boy. I'm still amazed at the sheer volume of cum that exits that man when I'm fucking his ass. Add to that warm lips on hard cock, and it's damn near Old Faithful in the bedroom. Ah, it's good to be the one that doesn't clean that up. Heh. Sunday, December 04, 2005Hey!We were reviewed by Vamp over at Jane's Guide! We've always liked her reviews of D/s sites in general, so we're very excited she liked us. Among other things, she says we're really in to strap-on. Yes, yes we are. We haven't had nearly enough of that lately... Welcome to all those joining us from Jane's, and big thanks to Vamp. |
