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Thursday, June 30, 2005Who We AreABitDifferent down in the bottom post asked for a little background on us. I can tell you about me, but I'll let my husband tell you about him. As an aside to that--it is too weird being all incognito and stuff. New email accounts, pseudonyms, all that jazz. I've never been "under cover" before and I find it all a bit strange but also titillating. And isn't that a nice word? Suffice it to say we have jobs and kids, and want neither to be compromised by our bedroom fun! So, in the vaguest but most specific terms: I am 27, my husband is 27. We have known each other many many years but have been romantically involved for 3 of those. Before him, I was married to an emotionally abusive jerk. Before that, I was raised by an emotionally abusive jerk. Needless to say, I'm not all that mystified about where my desire to control men comes from. In fact, I often muse about this--am I sick? Am I crazy? I've come to the conclusion that no, I'm not sick or crazy. My past has affected my present, but who's hasn't? I think my essential "Dommeness" started out one way, but has morphed through much self work into a simple sexual proclivity, much like being turned on by shoes or liking anal sex (ask the pet about that ;). And I'm fairly tame, some might even criticize me for not being "Domme enough". To them I say whatever, it's not your sex life anyway. I first discovered this side of myself around the time I became involved with my husband romantically. I was seeing someone else, a dear dear man who just wasn't going to be "the one". I've always been fascinated by sexual "kink"--in fact it is kind of what led me to my current career in the helping profession. As this man and I explored, he helped me realize that it was more than an interest, but a desire that I had for dominance, for topping, for exerting my will over another. For me it isn't even as much about WHAT we do, but that we do it my way, when I say and how I say. Though I do get off on certain things, as you've seen and will continue to see. He was a confirmed sub, and helped me explore being a Domme a bit, but by then my relationship with "the guy", my husband, was heating up and I had to end it with this other man. From then on, for me, the Domme thing got put in a closet for a while. But this side of me never went away, never even got smaller. She would sit in her closet and bang on the door and fight to be let out--especially when my husband showed signs of subbing, like wanting anal sex, wanting me to be rough with him, etc. So, we spent a long time talking about it. My husband wasn't comfortable with the idea, and I'll let him explain that to you. I just waited, wanting and leaving that part of me out of it. That was hard, as I'm sure some of you can understand. I'm so happy that he agreed to "go there" now. I'm so so relieved to let that girl out of her closet to play. Our sex life is amazing lately, too. My husband has commented I'm more attentive and patient, more affectionate now. On my end, I'm just supremely satisfied. Ahhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh I hope that provided some background. I just love how pet writes the steamy bits--he's so sexy. Wednesday, June 29, 2005And Now for Something Completely Different...Well, I'm horny, how are you? My lovely lovely spouse and pet has introduced you to the fun side of this blog, let me introduce you to the, ahem, business end. We started this blog for two reasons: REASON ONE It is so freaking hot. It has all ready enhanced the journey we're on through conversations like this one yesterday... him: "I can't remember if I fucked you from behind or if you fucked me and I came on the bed." me: "Neither can I. Wait, didn't you lick my ass for like half an hour that day?" him: "Oh yeah. I want to do that again." Etc. Fun. REASON TWO When we finally decided to move forward and add some D/s play to our lovemaking, I did what I tend to do. I went researching. I found www.gabbyhey.blogspot.com through a blog traffic site, and instantly knew that was what I was looking for. Here was an ordinary person who was exploring and moving deeper into her submission. The diary explored the ups and downs of subbing, and shared her thoughts on all sorts of matters. And also, she included lots of hot sex, bonus. From her blog rolls I found www.keeperandkept.blogspot.com, one of my very favorite new blogs of all time. Also, I found www.guiltyparties.blogspot.com. All three of these blogs really characterize the need I had--regular people, real feelings. Not a fakey porn site or an extreme fetish site, but an honest, open experience of D/s. Thanks to all three sites for your excellence and dedication. Here was my problem. All of these sites, and the many other quality sites I surfed, were male dominant, female submissive sites. I searched for hours, then put my husband on the job since he's a much more tech savvy person. Neither of us found anything. We found a few quality male submissive sites--this one in particular www.wifeworship.blogspot.com. We also found about a trillion pay Domme sites. However, no one was really exploring as a couple all the aspects of BECOMING a D/s couple with a Domme. Dang, we thought, that's a bummer. So here we are. Clearly my pet, my love, my husband has a gift for the dirty talk, so I'll let him fill you in on our exploits so far. As of now, we are focusing our D/s activities in the bedroom, and keeping our 24/7 life vanilla and D/s free. We're not sure where we're going on this trip, but we hope that we can help someone out there like us along the way. Join us, won't you? P.S. Does anyone else find it odd that the blogger spellcheck doesn't recognize the word "blog"? Friday, June 24, 2005First Post!I always wanted to say that. |
