Tuesday, July 19, 2005The 4 Senses
I'd love to recount all the sex we've had lately, but it's all kind of running together in my mind like one big sex fest. Cool. Even the vanilla quickie we had during kid naps was awesome. D/s just makes everything better.
I wanted to mention the beauty of the blindfold, though, because, yummy.
I blindfolded pet some night recently, and I really started to get into sense play. He is an exquisitely sensitive man, very ticklish and otherwise quite easy to stimulate. This can be good and bad, but this time it was good. I spent a long time just running my hands lightly over all parts of him. It was neat that there was an element of surprise, and it seemed he was even more sensitive than usual. Like, I put my hand lightly on his chest--even just brushing the hair and not touching him, and he gasped with pleasure. He was really in tune with me and very submissive--didn't move a muscle despite lots of tickling. I do want to get into the rope stuff soon, but I really love that he stays still on command, even though I know normally he'd have stopped me long before I stopped if he had his way.
The other fun thing to do during blindfold time is to blow lightly all over his body. Moving cold air over him makes him squirm.
I was experimenting, going from light, almost nothing touches to very rough biting and back at will, and it seemed to keep him off balance and aroused for a long time. It is amazing how long I can keep him hard when I'm in charge.
I know I eventually climbed on board and fucked him while he was still blindfolded--kissing and biting him on the neck, chest and nipples while he was shouting "thank you mistress, thank you thank you" That was especially sexy. He managed not to cum, somehow, then we switched places, I removed the blindfold and he came on my backside, which he loves and was very sexy. He cleaned us up with a towel and we cuddled--ah, bliss. I love his submission for many reasons, and one is the aftercare. We both really connect after a session of D/s, and spend more time than usual just being together physically and emotionally.