Wednesday, January 16, 2008Rule Number Four
4. You will take care of your looks and health. This includes but is not limited to:
Keeping a yearly physical and bi-yearly dental appointments
Shave regularly (once every other day or when I say so)
You know the hair deal. A haircut every three months or at my request.
A massage a minimum of every six months, preferably every three months with the haircut. You keep track of the schedule, I'll make it happen.
Scheduling one night of “you” time per week
This used to be a much more vague rule about self care, but pet has a tendency to neglect himself when he's stressed. Thus, the rules have become more directive. I've deleted several more identifying details, as well, including times and dates, etc.
The one thing I have not scheduled is sex/scene time. We are working toward a level of connection that would allow us to scene on a schedule, but for now we find we have to spend a lot of time being intimate before we can connect enough to scene. I hope to add this as this contract becomes more ingrained.