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Friday, March 03, 2006It's not all Blow Jobs and Butt SexGabby's husband and Dom, right, or was it Gabriel? Well, either way, sometimes being the Domme means putting yourself last, not first. Pet has had some serious libido killing stuff going on, and has had little to no interest in sex, intimacy and zero interest in service and submission. He didn't even take me up on my spanking offer, which is really sad and out of character for him. Well, I take that back. He has been thriving on my basic "take-charge" attitude, but has not returned the favor by being subservient (I've been saying it's all the Domme responsibility with none of the Domme rewards, lol). I don't resent this. He needs to be supported and his boundaries need to be respected right now. This is the time to let him guide our sexual experience. As long as he realizes that when he's ready to return, I will be in charge ;) |