Tuesday, September 06, 2005What I Learned This Weekend
1. Sudafed is goooooooooooooooooood.
2. Oh my, having my ankles tied is fun. I really enjoyed that more than I expected to. Something about the openess, the vulnerability, and the feeling of my lover back there looking at me, sizing up the possibilities of me. And if I felt this way, how will my little sub feel when I get him tied? I'm looking forward to this.
3. Ah spanking. It is so much more fun than I imagined it would be. I really enjoy the redness, the goose bumps he gets, the twitching, the yelping. I like that he knew I would spank him harder and more if he asked, and he did ask--indirectly. I really like that. And I like to receive as well, but I've always known I like a bit of pain.
4. Floggers are expensive.
5. I still want one! Any suggestions?
6. One can enjoy sex without orgasm, really enjoy it. Still miss the orgasm, but I'm enjoying the lack of pressure on either of us to "achieve" anything outside of a good time.
7. Pet is very much the bratty bottom at times, which can be hard to track because sometimes he really wants to be punished (see number 3), and somtimes he's not into subbing at all. Patience, patience in all things D/s. Things are easier all the time, but it has been a struggle to get there in an open, clear manner. Such is life.
8. For Secretive Slave: Yes we are mad rushed. Too much real life, not enough play time. The price we pay for having our darlings Stewie and the Older One. Our kids are awesome, and both of us would gladly step in front of a bus rather than experience life without them. And, this means that we have less grown up time. I know this will pass as they grow, and someday we'll be bugging them to talk to us at all let alone monopolize our time like this. I know I suffer sexually because I have two thirds of my mind on the laundry and the bills and the baby moniter and LIFE in general. I would love love love to have an empty house for 5 good hours. Of course, knowing us we'd spend 4 of them napping! But I want to enjoy their babyhood and childhood while I can, too, so the kink gets rushed. You're perceptive as always, and M is a lucky girl!