There are days I just take myself way too seriously. D/s is fun, why be so maudlin about it? Sheesh. That should go for all of us out here, too. I rarely find need to talk about how "it is" or how "it should be" because I'm no expert on anything outside my own life. But when I see people getting all riled up about this or that I have to think--just relax and have some fun people. Judgment gets us nowhere, nor does counterattack and side-taking. This is a small enough community as it is. Why not have more fun?
You all need a good hearty flogging. Care to come over? I'm in a flogging mood. (not really, no stalkers please)
I was flipping through old posts and found pet's drawings. We all need to encourage him to do more of this, after a month when his big project is done. My encouragement will come in the form of assignment, I think ;)
Have you been listening to Fetish Flame lately? (I have. Nova makes me all wiggly.) There was a great series of shows on beginner's BDSM in the last few days. See link to the left there. I WISH WISH WISH I could have been at Folsom. Maybe next year.
I want to be rough again. It comes in waves and here it is, waving. Poor pet (as if he doesn't love every minute--and complain every minute!)
More fun, less belly button gazing. That's my new goal.
Well, I'm not so sure about an online 'community' part, but Mistress and I are focusing more, recently, on our own fun- the cage, spur play, cutting (thank you Destiny and chance)- and less on distracting objections from others online.
ReplyDeleteIn the end, it's not as if online emotionally-based judgments matter. Mistress and I find ourselves gravitating toward like-minded couples, with whom we've exchanged some supportive and helpful IMs and emails.
Ah, Folsom.....I have friends in SF who go annually, so I/we have a standing invitation. It's just a hard time of year for our schedules. Plus, ironically, being SF, it's well-covered by the visual media- something not everyone can be blase about.
But in time, I'm confident we'll get there.