Thursday, October 12, 2006Sex and Candy
I have found (and so has my mistress) that the longer it has been since my orgasm, the more desperate and kinky I get. For example, one hour after an orgasm, something like having my lady urinate on me has no appeal at all. One-two days go by, I'm considering it. three-four days go by, I'm snuggling up to her telling her my fantasys about it. A week goes by and I'm on the ground in front of the toilet waiting for her to get the urge.
So, naturally, her desire to have lustful, passionate sex is realized long after my last orgasm, right? Not so. My staying power decreases exponentially the longer it has been since my last orgasm. One hour after orgasm, if I can overcome the physical issues with getting an erection again, I can last for hours without orgasm. One-Two days go by, I can last a couple minutes. Three-four days go by and we're into the under-a-minute range; after a week, the friction of my tighty-whities on my penis can set me off as I lay in bed next to her.
No joke on that last one either; a few encounters ago I had to take off my underwear to keep from orgasming while I pleasured her from beside her in bed. Usually I leave my underwear on as a protective barrier to keep me from getting too anxious.
What all this means is that there is a happy place somewhere between one hour and one week. We have pretty well established this and based on what she wants at the time, she picks when I have an orgasm. For example, if she wants to get really kinky, she waits 4+ days from my last orgasm before making love again. If she wants a long ride, she does what she did earlier this week, and permits me an orgasm several hours ahead of time so that I'm able to maintain without overstimulation.
Of course, I don't have to have an orgasm when we do have our sexual encounter, be it hours or days between, but my lady is good and merciful and most often permits me one. I think she gets tired of stepping over me on the way into the bathroom.
I love you, my lady!