Sunday, August 07, 2005Whip Me, Beat Me
I have been obsessed with spanking lately, and while my mistress is more than willing to induldge me, she was holding back a bit up until yesterday. Here's the situation: The baby is asleep, I'm reading D/s blogs and she's cuddling with me. Then, I make some comment like "remember when I fingered you and spanked you at the same time?" and she said "yeah, that was hot," so I followed with "Maybe you could do a kind of spanking on me and a reach-around manuver or something?" to which she said "get in the bedroom and drop your pants."
This was surprising and exciting for me, so of course, I did it right away. I had my pants around my ankles and as I was bending over to untie my shoes, she pushed me forward, face down, onto the bed (gently of course, I could have stopped myself but I like it when she's a little rough with me). She got up on the bed next to me, and after a few practice slaps, she found a sweet spot where she had a pretty good shot at my ass with her right hand and a nice hold on my dick with her left. We stayed this way for a while, her stoking my cock and slapping my ass, keeping me just hard enough but not over the top hard.
The pain from the spanking was giving me second thoughts, and even worse, analytical thoughts. Since we weren't really D/s'ing right then, I started making half-hearted suggestions like "if you aim more for the cheek of my ass than half-cheek, half-thigh, it might hurt less" and "Sometimes, when you slap across both cheeks, I get either a rush of pain like you're driving a nail into my prostate or a rush of air. Both are equally unsettling." She said "uh huh. done?" I said "yep" and then she went on her merry way slapping wherever and however she liked. I really expected nothing less, even when not really D/s'ing, she still exhibits mistress behavior. If I had a real complaint, it's on me to say the safe word and get it straightened out. As it was, my ass cheeks were just burning from the intense, constant barrage of spanking; a situation I had been desiring for a while.
I had read a little about spanking from other blogs, how it is used for weight control, discipline, and sexual intercourse, but I never really understood it. I saw some pictures of bright red (sometimes bleeding) asses and just didn't get why it was so desirable and so sexually intoxicating. My mistress talked a lot about the burning sensation turning into a warm sensation as the blood flowed to the surface, and feeling good. I really just wanted to experience it myself. I can safely say that it is painful, though exhilirating. I hope we add it to our arsenal of sexual activities.
Back to the action! There I am, face down, red ass up, being yanked on and fondled then slapped and smacked. I find myself drooling on the bed and precumming on her hand. The pain from the spanking was enough to kill my erection, but the stroking was enough to keep it, so I stayed half-hard the whole time. She then slowed the spanking down, and put me in charge of my orgasm. She lay on the bed, her head at my waist so she had a front row seat for the orgasm to come, but still gave me a little slap every so often while I rubbed myself into a frenzy and finally exlpoded onto the sheets below. I managed to get some on my chest, practically defying gravity, I came with such force.
My mistress was rather pleased with herself after this, so I went to work on her, and after just a little bit of stimulating she came as well. Given that the baby was waking up and triggering her mommy instinct, the fact that she came speaks volumes to the arousal triggered by the spanking.