Tuesday, July 12, 2005Rope Cuffs and Reflections
First, I want to thank my Mistress for knowing me well enough to know that I do not want to add pain to our regiment. I know that I deserve some postponing of my orgasm to balance out the times I've rushed it, but "whip me, beat me" is not something that gets me off. Rather, quite the opposite. Likewise, the 24/7 sub role doesn't ring my bell either, this I know. I am far too "Ms. Independent" to want someone effectively controlling my whole life. Those are some pretty good reasons not to do it, and we're both okay with that. There are some very good reasons to do it too, for example, the REALLY FUCKING HOT SEX that results from aknowledging that part of ourselves and letting go so it can come out and play. That is really a good enough reason alone to do it, though there are others.
I spent some time on the sofa with rope, I think I mentioned it in an earlier post. Here is what I came up with:
...and those are my findings. Really, I'm a cheap-ass more than a knot enthusiast, and cuffs and stuff are so expensive! I imagine that given time, we'll get all kinds of that stuff, but until then, "Ace is the place."
Now, on to some juicy recollections. Last night wasn't particularly D/s-full, but it was hot. We started by rolling around on the bed, talking about this and that, and slowly stripping down as it got hotter and hotter in the room. I, of course, rushed in and started grinding away on my wife, but it was more playful than erotic at that point, as we both still had undies on.
I found comfort grinding up against her ass cheeks, even through the fabric. We hugged and kissed a bit, and then I started telling her how I wanted to give her a pearl necklace, or cum on her breasts, or fuck her hard. This got her juices flowing and so I snuck my fingers in her pussy and began to go to work. She was wet alright! So was I, pre-cumming on her legs while I did this.
Eventually she rolled to her back and I put on a condom. I slid inside her, and she pulled out her vibrator and picked up where I left off. I could feel the vibrations on my hard penis in her pussy as I moved slowly in and out. I waited for her to cum, and then I finished myself off in her warmth. We basked in our own sweat and fluids, then cuddled for a while.
As I said, not particularly D/s, but worth reporting as good loving should be shared.